
Testimonials
"Talking to Amy is easy, which is exactly what you need when you need to talk about something personal, something you might not feel you can talk about with anyone else, something you may not have ever said out loud before. She is so friendly, approachable and non judgmental that conversations are organic and fluid, you know you can trust her to listen openly, question you gently and offer honest, useful and kind advice. Amy helps you to understand the complexity of human relationships, offering different perspectives and encouraging open and honest communication which helps to lead you to a healthy relationship with yourself and others."
Lisa (she/her)
"When I first met Amy I was mostly impressed by her capacity to approach with clarity a wide variety of topics. She had names for the emotions I was feeling and structure for my confused thoughts. My journey into ENM has certainly been smoother thank to Amy's openness and communication ability."
Irene (any/all pronouns)
"Amy's experience combined with her impressively high level emotional intelligence makes her the perfect support for anyone trying to navigate more unconventional relationship setups. Well, not just such people really, anyone could benefit from coaching from this force of nature."
Morten (he/him)
"I met Amy at quite a tough point in my life. I was heartbroken after a breakup, moved into a flat by myself, had just come out as (at the time) non-binary and was desperate to find any kind of community. I was also delving into the polyamorous world for the first time. Over the next few months I struggled to find community, I unfortunately learnt that just because someone is going through something similar to you - it does not mean they are a good person for you, or have your best interests at heart. My self-confidence at the time was also critically low and I was quite naïve, which meant I would put myself in quite vulnerable situations where I would come out feeling empty and worse about myself.
However, Amy’s kindness and friendship was exactly what I needed. She saw me as an actual person and when I was around her endeavoured to make sure I felt comfortable and seen for who I really am. She has such a warmth to her that becomes apparent within minutes of being in her company. In the time I spent with her I was able to gain some of my self-confidence back and unlock a new bit of self-confidence I didn’t know I had. It proved community existed where I did not expect it.
Nowadays, I am happy to have a smaller network of people around me, if the people who are around me are actually a positive influence. In general, I am trying to compare myself/my experiences less to other people and just do my own thing - and I feel more content because of it. I think Amy (and I couldn’t not mention her partner Jess for that matter) genuinely helped a lot with getting to this point."
Max (they/them)
"I cannot recommend Amy enough as an alternative lifestyle coach. At the very start of my journey into the complex, and often confusing worlds of both the ethical non-monogamous and queer communities, I felt like I didn’t belong in either. But Amy changed that.
She was incredibly friendly and approachable, creating a safe and welcoming space where I felt truly seen and heard. She really listened to me, asking thoughtful questions and offered considered advice that helped me uncover things about myself I hadn’t realised before.
Thanks to her guidance, I’ve grown in confidence and feel so much more at home in my identity. I’m deeply grateful for her support and would recommend her to anyone exploring alternative lifestyles or seeking to embrace their authentic selves."
Jessica (she/her)
"When my partner and I were first exploring ENM, we connected with Amy who helped us feel at ease, and helped make a lot of things make sense. Amy has a remarkable talent for helping navigate and understand jealousy and we would 100% recommend anyone who is looking to explore ENM/polyamory to contact her. "
Kate (she/her)
"Amy has been instrumental in helping me grow in my understanding of romantic relationships. Through her wisdom, I’ve learned that communication and patience are essential for building deeper, more meaningful connections. Her guidance has truly made a lasting impact on how I navigate relationships."
Kola (he/him)
"Amy has personal experience of ENM and it shows with how emotionally aware she is and how she is excellent at communicating about feelings and needs. She is a great role model for someone starting their ENM journey."
Tom (he/him)
"Starting to explore a world outside monogamy can be daunting, particularly when you're in a long term relationship. But Amy was so amazing in helping us to navigate this world, and work out what we do want and what we don't. She's also just an amazing human being in general. Would highly recommend!"
Dave (he/him)
"I have known Amy since 2021. I am polyamorous and bi/pansexual. I've struggled to navigate dynamics around group intimacy, especially when those involve multiple overlapping partnership and friendship groups, sometimes with internal conflicts. Additionally I am involved in co-parenting and building queer community. All of that is complicated, with no "script", and requires more than just a commitment to good communication (important as that is, it means many things). Over the years Amy has been a wonderful source of support and advice and I'm very grateful for her help. They are non-judgemental, thoughtful and compassionate."
Mark (he/him)
"As a newcomer to the poly scene, I had a lot of questions and Amy was a priceless source of information and support. Her empathy for any situation is huge and there is never any judgement, just good advice and a friendly smile!
I would continue to rely on Amy for any kind of relationship advice, her knowledge and experience is beyond question."
Dan (he/him)
"Amy is an excellent listener and proactive at being supportive. She has helped me understand alternative relationships more than any of the books and blogs I’ve read before (not that these weren’t awesome). But I have truly felt able to be myself and flourish since she’s been in my life!"